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Sunday, October 12, 2008

Almaty or Bust!

I’m glad to report that the three of us have made it safely to Almaty!!! We are settling into our hotel room, which is much smaller than our room at Hotel Jannat. The room is clean, seems to be safe and has a crib for Caleb so we don’t have too much to complain about.

We were picked up at 7am to leave for Almaty. Our coordinator felt that the border would be less crowded if we went earlier. We had a somewhat rough, off-schedule night with Caleb the night before and had to wake him in order to leave. I think that’s where everything started to go downhill! We prayed as a family before we left and asked for God to help the border crossing to go well.

God did answer our prayer, but He also reminded us that He has a sense of humor. God decided to use screaming as His tool of choice today. Way to go, God… not exactly what we had in mind, but whatever you say!

Almost as soon as we loaded into the mini-bus, Caleb was screaming. Bryan and I claimed the back row so we’d have room to spread out. We rolled out of the Hotel Jannat parking lot and the screaming began. It took about 45 minutes to get from our hotel to the border, screaming all the way. We tried everything but nothing would calm Caleb down.

We got out of the car at the Kyrgyz border and went into the office. Saule guided us to the border guard. She gave him our passports first and he went in a room and verified them. He then came out and asked for Caleb’s and seemed surprised to see it was a Kyrgyz passport. We later found out that he questioned Saule quite a bit about Caleb going with us and even asked Saule if she would be able to go to America to check on Caleb later! I’m not sure how Saule answered but I’m pretty sure she’ll know how he’s doing with all of the post placement reports we will do!

Thankfully, we made it across the Kyrgyz border and got back in the van to drive to the Kazakh border crossing office. By the time we reached that office Caleb was screaming bloody murder. Inside the office, Saule was helping us fill out some forms for him and making sure we had all the passports ready. We got in line behind about 10 other people, who quickly gestured to us to move to the front of the line since Caleb was so upset. We gladly obliged and were out of there in no time! THANK YOU LORD – because Bryan and I were both getting frazzled. I guess when we prayed this morning for God to take care of the border crossing he decided it would be best to have Caleb expedite the process via screaming. We were just glad that we didn’t have to use Dave’s idea of how to get Caleb across the border – hiding him under my shirt and smuggling him while playing Mission Impossible music in the background. That plan would have fallen short today as people would’ve wondered why my shirt was screaming.

Once we were back on the road, we were FINALLY able to get Caleb to take a bottle. He quickly fell asleep and slept soundly until we were about 15 minutes from the hotel in Almaty – close to 2 hours! We felt so relieved and it was nice to have a small break. We were able to enjoy the Kazakh countryside along the road to Almaty.

We are now just hanging out in our hotel room after meeting up with our in-country coordinator, Zorya. I was organizing things in our room and decided to hang a crib decoration on Caleb’s crib. It is a fabric picture frame of sorts that my Mom helped me make before our first trip. It ties to the side of the crib and has our photo on it- a genius idea I scammed from fellow Kyrgyz adoptive parent Suzanne B in California. We left the photo at Caleb’s orphanage on Trip 1 although I’m not sure it ever found its way to his crib. The hope was that he would be able to look at it and become familiar with our faces. I was so happy that the orphanage doctor gave it back to us.

Today when I tied the picture of us onto the crib Caleb took notice immediately. He began staring and studying our faces in the picture and before long was “talking” to us non-stop. He was kicking his legs and moving his arms so fast, all while cooing at the picture of his Mommy & Daddy. I thought I was going to cry watching him, just knowing that after this short period of time together – crying, screaming and all – seeing a picture of us makes him happy. What a great reward God had in store for us at the end of this long and sometimes bumpy road!!

Tomorrow we will go do some souvenir shopping with Zorya in the morning and then go to the SOS Medical Clinic in the afternoon for Caleb’s exam. Caleb will get blood work done in addition to a basic exam. We are praying it will go well although there will certainly be some tears!

We have to pay for the internet service in our Almaty hotel by the hour so our posts will be fewer. We’ll do our best to keep everyone updated, especially since we only have 4 full days left before we get on a plane to COME HOME!!!

Moms & Dads- the internet won't stay connected for longer than a few minutes at a time so I doubt we'll be able to get a good Skype connection. We'll give it a try later but don't be worried if you don't hear from us tonight :(

12 comments:

the Kahler Family said...

Way to go Caleb! I guess he was ready to get out of Kyrgyzstan...he knows, he is almost HOME and is just showing his impatient side!!! Have a great time with your baby before coming home to the real world.

Love you guys,
Karla

Audrey said...

Whew - you made it! SO happy to hear that all 3 of you made it safely and that all is going well. Sometimes a screaming baby gets you things ;-) It's one of those things no one tells you. Good luck at the dr visit tomorrow!

Unknown said...

We're glad you made the crossing safe and sound. Bryan - Caleb is just following in his Daddy's footsteps - screaming! And like his Daddy, he'll be a great guy.

Dad and I are so excited to see the daily pictures of Caleb. He is absolutely adorable. I am thrilled that he loves to talk to his Mommy and Daddy. Keep safe. Only a few more days and we'll see him in person.

Love, GranJan

Carol M said...

It was so good to hear that you made it across the border, one big step closer to the USA. Now that you have that part of this process behind you,and baby and parents know each other better, I hope these next few days will be more relaxing. The sweet stories about Caleb are wonderful. I read them over and over. Love to you all, Mom

mariellen said...

Hi Betsy~~You made it!!Everything will get easier from now on~~just keep thinking about stepping on the plane to come home! Thanks for the stories~we love them!

Hilary Marquis said...

I was praying for you! I guess I wasn't specific enough. I said, "no troubles, easy, smooth, short" I said nothing about QUIET! Welcome to motherhood, it is rarely quiet, and when it is, someone is usually up to something ;) So glad you are safe and sound, and almost done.

Blessings,
Hilary

Nancy said...

I am glad to hear that things are going smoothly, even if that means loudly! I'm praying for the rest of the journey to be an easy one.

Maria said...

And, as you left, we arrived. I am 28 hours away from my baby and reading your border crossing story makes my tummy cringe. *smile* It will all be fine, I'm sure. I hope your time in Almaty goes well. I can't wait until we are ALL home and can catch up. Love the crib photo story!!

Suzanne Bilyeu said...

Yeah, I am so glad to hear that you are in Almaty. Phase 2 is underway.

Caleb is looking great and it just amazes me how quickly these little babies are catching up. It is certainly reassuring for those of us waiting and hoping that our little ones will be OK.

Suzanne

Anonymous said...

Alright! I am so glad you are on your last leg of your journey, that must feel like such a relief and accomplishment! We are praying for you and look so forward to you being able to return home with your son. Also, we have one thing in common yesterday, we had an unusual Saturday FULL of screaming also!

Uncle Jim said...

Way to go! God will certainly bring you through this adventure in grand style. His methods are mysterious, but they work.

All three of you are in our prayers.

God bless.

Uncle Jim

Laura and Tom said...

Who knew that was the secret to a successful boarder crossing?! Congrats on making it to Almaty and good wishes for the remainder of the trip! Any tips for the PAP's out here in terms of hotels in Almaty?